RESPECT OTHERS TO LIGHTEN YOUR HEART

by DR.EQUBAL WAJID

The moment we regard or pay respect to others, the bad feelings disappear and our hearts get lighten. A major hidden cause of our upset mood and anxieties are that we never pay proper respect to the people to whom we interact in our daily life. Regards, and respects create love, and love universally lightens the heart and soul. On contrary, disrespect, disregard and insolence increases the hatred level and make us fed up, unhappy and depressed.

Suppose you are passing through a crowded street in a down town. Different types of people are passing back and forth. They all are busy in their tasks. You are upset with this sight, because you hate it. You like loneliness not a crowd, because you hate the mankind or you do not know to pay suitable respect to them. In the crowd your heart is not at ease, rather than it is disturbed. Why it is so? Because, for the crowd your heart is empty for any kind of respect. You do not know how to look at the crowd with respect or love? If you learn to take a glace of the crowd in a suitable way the moment your heart will ease. Your entire burden will get down. You will remain as a peaceful man. You are looking at your wife, who commonly annoys you; you are talking to your son who usually increases your tensions. You are angry on your servant who always comes late. You are interacting with anyone whoever he may be, at every sphere of life, if you want to lighten your heart from annoyance, irritations, and frustrations, try to respect all living beings. There are scores of justified reasons or good things in every human being that can be acceptable grounds to respect them. Not considering between a poor or a rich, a shift worker or a high class citizen, a Janitor or a Director. The causes of respect will vary from person to person but there will be some common points which can be found in every human being.

The most important point is to look up on these people with kind eyes. Think that all those who are passing back and forth in the streets are the sons of Adam. All are your brothers. We all are living in oneness, breathing in one air, living on one planet, moving slowly towards death. Like you, the thing they all need most is beauty and love. They all are in pain because they are alive. They all are inconsolable because they are facing the struggle for being alive. It is your greatest responsibility to serve, help and lend a hand to them in all their problems. If you cannot help them; at least you can ask Allah [God] to wrap them all in his mercy and grace. Atleast you have to become one of their great admirers and well-wishers. Think that you are their strongest sympathizer. You will never like, if anything happen wrong to these sons of Adam. Think that your happiness and grief depends on them.

You want the sons of Adam to be happy and growing. You want everybody always be in good health, earn sufficient money for their dearer. You want all patients to be cured, all children to grow in health and education. You wish all mothers to live in tranquility, all daughters to live in peace of mind, all sisters to feel safe and secured. Not all women are your wife or girl friends to whom you want to be intimate with. All the other than your wife are just like your own sisters. You should do what a brother should do for his sisters.

By the time you will practice to look at the crowd in this divine way your heart will lighten and you will be at ease.

Same is the case with all the human being to whom you interact in your daily life. If you learn the art to look at the human being suitably, every human being will emerge as a stimulant of peace for you. Your wife is not just your wife to whom you love or hate. She also has a big status of her own beyond this sexual relation. She is the daughter of Eve. She is a human being, the most precious existence on the earth. She has a body and a soul all made by Allah [God]. She has many precious organs in her body which nobody can duplicate. Your duty is to spend your life with this valued existence in a very welcoming and friendly atmosphere.

The tea boy of your office is not only a tea boy; he is a human being the most precious creature on earth. How simple is he? How he spends his life is such a low salary. If he would have your brother, how it had pinched you. He is working to pass his livelihood. He may have working to feed his old parents. He may have working to feed his small children. How valuable is he? He works to run family. The servant who comes to your house is also working to feed his family. How valuable is he? You need to respect him. Don’t you?

If you want to earn everlasting peace of mind do became the servant of the mankind. Think you’re nothing but a servant of all mankind your job is to help, assist and do all needful for the humanity. Think that you are bound to serve everybody. Be ready, all the time to serve others. Always stand to help them all. Whenever you look, talk, or pass anybody feel that you are his service provider. Help him free of cost, only for the sake of your tranquility. Majority of the mankind does not know that service to humanity and respect to it is one of the most effective sources of happiness in this world.

If you have some constant frustrations or non-repairable pains in your live, which you think can never be cured, offer respect for the humanity and become a serviceman of it. All your pains will be healed all of a sudden. You will be the happiest man on the earth. Bow for help to everybody and become mad of it. Remember that respect to others and service to the humanity is a profound and most effective way of happiness. It has an unprecedented power of healing all kinds of severe wounds germinated from emotions.

I want to recommend you all to go for a test and start respecting the humankind as well as became a kind servant to it. You will experience that lots of incurable wounds are getting healed through this process. XXXXX

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