I Lost Love, and I Want it Back

I could not believe it when my boyfriend told me it was over. He said I wasn't giving him enough time and affection. I gave him physical intimacy, money, and the keys to my car. What more could he possibly want from me? Even though I lost love, I don't believe the whole thing is my fault. In fact, the more I think about it, the more I feel that he never loved me to begin with.

Right around the holidays, he started spending less and less time with me. Basically, the only place where anything went on was the bedroom. A few times, I asked if he loved me. Of course, eh said yes. Now, I am starting to wonder just what I expected him to say. What man will say "no" when he's getting his needs met with a minimal amount of effort. I guess that just isn't enough when the chemistry between two people isn't right.

Have you ever denied that your relationship was in trouble? Every time that happened for me, I would ask my boyfriend how he felt. The bottom line is he never said anything was wrong until he was sure that he was well on his way into another woman's bed. What can any woman do with a mess like that?

While I lost love once, I'm determined not to have the same thing happen again. Regardless of whether or not I get my ex boyfriend back, I am going to learn everything I can about building and maintaining healthy romantic relationships. In fact, next time I'm going to demand a lot more respect from my boyfriend. No matter how bad I feel because I lost love, I know I must learn from my past mistakes and look to the future and new beginnings.

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By Kevin Scanlon Dwyer